We got a lot of emails asking us to outline our DD methods and what works best. Now, we have two silent tools, one kept at home and one that he has me carry in my handbag wherever we go. I don't forget these sessions for days because it hurts to sit down, but they have helped me and saved our marriage. Alfred's Grandmother men getting spanked by wives stories to constantly nag him to study. This is a story that tries to capture the fantasy of being punished by Mommy.
When Alfred men getting spanked by wives stories pushes her too far, she call's Lilly's house, hoping to get her father the Major to help her take Alfred "down a peg or two". By taking me over his knee, he is assuring me that he will not let me, my mistakes or anything destroy us. Self-spanking and the spanking machine have kept me calm and in a better place when he is gone. TIPS The trick to submission and dominance is consistency.
Invest in a silent tool like a Loopy Johnny or a plastic hanger will work. This was recommended by our therapist as well because I was becoming depressed and she recommended that my negativity be added to our list and the punishment such that it would deter me from feeling negative about myself and the world. Some people think this is cruel, but that's because they don't see the compassion and the love that goes into it. When he is gone which is more often now than it used to be, I am instructed to self-spank.